To all of the fathers who are an integral factor in their kids' lives I just want to say thank you. I know sometimes its rough dealing with us baby mommas cus we never seem satisfied and make your lives hell at times, but deep down we do appreciate you being there. Even though you may not be able to contribute financially, as long as you are there to teach them and love them and nurture them, that is what truly matters at the end of the day. Sure, it would be nice for you to pay child support cus they sure in the hell aint free, but don't turn your back just cus you can't pay. At least TRY! We will remember that you didn't pay, but the chances of them remembering the financial aspect are slim to none. They will remember that anytime they needed you they could pick up the phone and you came running. Its tough being a good father when you aren't with the mother, but thanks for all that you are able to do. If nobody else appreciates you, I do!!!!
Then to all of the fathers who could care less about their kids.....WTF???? Maybe I can't understand cus I'm with my kids everyday and can't imagine life without them, but I am really curious how people can disassociate themselves from their own flesh and blood. If you don't want to be in their lives, then please, strap up!!!! These kids didn't ask to come here and although God has an ultimate plan and purpose for them, its still a hard and definitely unfair road for these babies to take. Think of all the birthdays, holidays, parent-teacher conferences, SURGERIES, etc. that you are noticeably absent for. The kids don't suffer, the full-time parent gets over it but when the times come that you are ready to be that key factor in their lives there is a damn good chance they won't want to have anything to do with you. Some may be forgiving and understanding, but its unlikely. And if you aren't in your kids lives for your own selfish reasons then PLEASE don't go running across the globe letting off your sperm in any woman who will take it and then disappear. It just aint cool!
And to the ladies......I know its hard doing it alone, trust me, but be mindful of who you are laying down with. If they have 4 or 5 kids and don't do shit for them, chances are he aint gonna do nothing for yours. Trust me, I know from experience! But keep your head up, it gets better and the bond you form with your children is unbreakable! They may not show it now or even for the next few years, but one day, they will realize who was there every step of the way, and they will love and appreciate you for EVERYTHING you sacrificed for them. God gave these kids to strong women, those He knew could handle it, so don't ever think you aren't doing a good job or that you need that man to be there, cus God knows exactly what he is doing! And don't wish that you had a different baby daddy cus EVERY part of your child is the exact make-up that God wanted. These children were conceived in love (most of the time) so don't hate the man that isn't there, appreciate the fact that without him, your baby wouldn't be the same. Just pray that they take on the good qualities of each of us and then teach them not to make the same mistakes as both of their parents.
And to the childless....please take note and be mindful of what you are doing out there. STRAP UP IF YOU CAN'T HANDLE RESPONSIBILITY!!!!!!
I thank God for my beautiful babies each and every day. They are my blessings and even though I may complain at times, and they get on my LAST available nerve, I love them and can't imagine life without them. Children are God's gift to us and we must give them all that we have such as God has given us. He will never give you more than you can handle and even when it seems like no one cares about your kids but you, just know that they are loved more than you can ever imagine.
Just thought I'd share........... :)
Continue to be blessed!!!!!!!
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