LIARS!

Everyone knows a liar! Everyone IS a liar! So with those two statements being said, how do we deal with the lie when its about us???

Two things I despise is being lied TO and lied ON! If you continually lie to me, then obviously I won't trust you, but if you decide to lie ABOUT me then that's even worse. It's frustrating, to say the least, especially when someone wants to challenge you about it. Is it delusion? Is it denial? Or is it just plain stupidity??

We all lie, no matter how honest we may be; there is a little white lie burning inside of us all. But when someone tells a blatant lie about you and to you, how can you win that battle? Because it basically comes down to a "he said/she said" type of war, which nobody can really come out victorious unless it was recorded or witnessed. Which, I think I've decided to buy a mini-recorder for instances such as this.

But when you're integrity is on the line, and someone is challenging that, my question is, how do you prove you are telling the truth? Of course, it depends on each person's credibility first and foremost, but what if there is a third party involved who doesn't know either person well enough to decipher? This is my current issue. I would never have done the thing I've been accused of in a malicious way. But the accuser claims otherwise and is basically saying a conversation about the situation never occurred. Umm, were you mentally absent from that conversation? Because I was very much present and it went completely different from what you remember. I want to pull my hair out of my head because not only was someone there to actually hear this conversation in question, but the LIAR actually did this exact same thing to them a few weeks prior. Unfortunately, the LIAR is in a position to deny everything and play the "dumb role" while we take the heat for it because our names are tagged to it. Then the LIAR's story continues to change on a daily basis, but since its being told to different people, we really can't prove anything. UGH!

The worst part about all of this is that now my money has been compromised and my name is being slandered. I can give it to God, as I always believe is the best possible advice, however, I want to clear my name. I want people to believe ME! I guess this is one of those issues that it's probably not even worth fighting because it will only get worse before it gets better. And I definitely cannot afford to suffer the circumstances anymore should I pursue it, but it's just not right when people get away with things like this. Sometimes being honest, isn't always the best policy, huh?